It can be heart-wrenching when your parent starts struggling with everyday tasks, especially if you are unsure how to step in and help. Establishing guardianship offers a practical way to support your loved one if they become mentally or physically incapacitated.
Address incapacity with action
Incapacity can involve memory loss, confusion or physical limitations. When these issues disrupt an individual’s ability to make sound decisions, guardianship allows a responsible individual, the guardian, to take charge. They will handle key duties for the alleged incapacitated person (AIP), such as:
- Managing finances
- Coordinating medical care
- Overseeing housing arrangements
- Making personal decisions in line with known wishes
These safeguards can help your loved one remain supported while preserving their identity.
Protect dignity and safety
Guardianship can give you or another family member the ability to step in for your parent without taking over completely. The goal is to offer support that respects your parent’s preferences and best interests.
With the right balance of protection and independence, guardianship can help keep them safe without losing their sense of self.
Start the guardianship process
To initiate guardianship, you can file a petition with the court. The process typically involves a hearing where the court will evaluate whether guardianship is necessary.
If approved, the judge will appoint a competent individual to take on the responsibility of guardianship.
When to act
Taking steps early can reduce confusion and allow your parent to stay involved in the decision-making process for as long as possible. Look for signs in your parent’s day-to-day life that may indicate a need to act, such as:
- Unpaid bills or unusual purchases
- Missed medical appointments
- Trouble understanding important mail
- Expressions of fear or confusion around decision-making
When these issues arise, it may be time to start planning or seek help.
Bringing clarity and stability
Guardianship can provide you and your family with a reliable path forward when your parent can no longer manage their affairs independently. It can give you the structure you need to navigate difficult moments with clarity and care.
